novelraw Chapter 355 Caesarean Section 2
Chapter 355 Caesarean Section 2
Chapter 355 Caesarean Section 2
Although life will not be the same no matter who you marry, some things really have nothing to do with family conditions.
Whether you marry into a rich family or a poor one, if you are too soft-hearted and have no opinion, tragedy is likely to happen.
However, if the husband's family has no money, the possibility of tragedy is greater.
"Whether you think I'm materialistic or greedy, if you don't have the ability or strength, or if your husband's family doesn't have the ability, you should still think twice before having a child.
If everyone in your family can truly not favor boys over girls, then it’s fine whether you have one child or two.
But imagine if your family favors boys over girls and you have no say in the decision-making process, and if your first two pregnancies were girls and you absolutely must have a boy, then I'm not trying to scare you, but you should definitely not choose a cesarean section."
Wu Mei knew that Wei Wei was talking to her, and she was a little confused, "Why?"
"Your belly is only this big, and you can make a few cuts this big on it.
Although the second baby is usually delivered by caesarean section through the same incision as before, who knows what might happen?
If such an accident happens, can you guarantee that you will never get sick again? Are you sure you will never need surgery on this part of your abdomen?
Even if you can't, you can only have four children at most. If you do, you usually won't have four, but three, because your uterus can't handle it, and the belly explosion I just mentioned is no joke. "
Wu Mei was stunned when she heard this. To be honest, four was not a lot in her mind.
Among all the relatives on her mother's side or her father's side, her family had the fewest children, but they only had four.
Not only Wu Mei was stunned, but everyone except Wei Wei and Jiang Qi was also very surprised.
They all understood what Wei Wei didn't say explicitly. If she couldn't stand on her own feet and her husband's family favored boys over girls, she would have to give birth to only one child until she gave birth to a boy.
If you have a caesarean section, you can only have four children at most. Who can guarantee that one of the four babies will be a son?
Not only that, but with four such large cuts on the stomach, one can imagine how badly the body would be damaged.
These words made everyone fall into deep thought.
For example, Liu Jiaojiao's family has three children, mainly because she has two older brothers and she is the youngest. Her mother thinks that since she has both a son and a daughter and still has to work, there is no need to have too many children.
But most importantly, her mother never got pregnant again after giving birth to her.
Yu Xi also knew that his mother had two children, an older sister. But after giving birth to him, his mother didn't have any more children. It was because she injured her body when giving birth to him and couldn't have any more children.
If he were not a boy, Yu Xi knew that his mother's life would definitely not be as comfortable as it is now.
Li Zhibin also knew why his family had three children. It was because he had two older sisters.
As for Xiao Xuemu, he himself knew it well, and anyone with an older sister would understand. As for why his mother didn't have children, it was because Ms. Mu Qing felt that raising a child was too troublesome.
After giving birth to him, she was afraid to talk about having another child. She refused to have another one no matter what and even forced Comrade Xiao Bai to get a sterilization.
If you want to know how Xiao Xuemu knew all this, it was because Comrade Xiao Bai once drank too much and accidentally said a little bit, which aroused Xiao Xuemu's curiosity.
Xiao Xuemu got Comrade Xiao Bai drunk once and got all the information out of him.
However, because of this incident, Comrade Xiao Bai was glad that he had a sterilization. Otherwise, if he had another rebellious son like this, he would have been so angry that he would have died, and at the same time, his life would have been shortened by decades.
Looking at the people in deep thought, Wei Wei continued:
"Cesarean section is a surgical procedure and there are definitely risks associated with it, such as bleeding, infection, anesthesia reaction, etc.
And compared to a vaginal birth, a caesarean section requires more time to rest and recover.
Therefore, if you want to have a caesarean section, you must consider your own conditions and whether you can spare enough time to rest and recover.
Moreover, after the operation, there is a possibility of poor healing of the uterine incision, late postpartum bleeding, formation of abdominal wall sinus tracts, and long-term non-healing of the incision. These are just some of the problems. I can't remember so many others.
Furthermore, when giving birth again, there's a high probability that the uterine incision will split, leading to a uterine rupture. You've read books, so you know what the consequences of a uterine rupture are."
Wei Wei was not exaggerating, telling them so many harmful consequences to scare them.
The main reason is that the current cesarean section technology is not as mature as that of later generations. Later generations had so many sequelae, let alone now.
She was really afraid that after she and Jiang Qi had said so much, Liu Jiaojiao and Wu Mei would have caesarean sections because they were afraid of having children.
If you go for a C-section seriously and thoughtfully, then it's fine.
Blindly having a caesarean section because you are afraid of giving birth naturally, because you don’t know the consequences, and if your body is ruined, it will be the end of you.
To be honest, based on current technology, Wei Wei and Jiang Qi both sincerely recommend not having a cesarean section if possible.
After all, I heard that caesarean sections are now performed vertically. Later, it was said that vertical sections are better for the body than horizontal sections, so they were changed. I don’t know if it’s true.
Yu Xi was a little confused after hearing so much. He really didn't know these things, but there shouldn't be many people who knew these things! Except for those obstetricians.
No wonder so few people choose caesarean section. After all, although caesarean section is expensive, there are many rich people. However, people generally choose natural birth unless necessary.
"Does that mean it can't be used for caesarean sections?"
Jiang Qi shook his head, "It's not that it can't be used, it just depends on personal choice. There are both disadvantages and advantages.
Anyway, having children is not a good thing for girls no matter which option they choose.
Because no matter which method is used, it will cause great damage to the mother's body.
As for which production method to choose, it depends on personal choice.
If the baby is normal and of average size, a natural birth is possible, but no one knows how big the baby is, and even if you check, the results may not be accurate.
But if the child is too big, a child weighing seven or eight kilograms in the pregnant woman's belly, it would be dangerous to give birth naturally. If the child cannot be born, there is a high possibility that two people will die.
It's not just a matter of having a large child; some children have normal weight but a large head circumference, and such children are also difficult to give birth to."
Hearing this, several people present touched their heads unconsciously.
"If that's the case, it would be better to choose a cesarean section from the beginning. After all, switching from vaginal delivery to cesarean section is more dangerous, more dangerous than both combined."
Speaking of this, Wei Wei suddenly remembered something, "Not only is it dangerous, but for some special people it's extremely painful, almost like torture.
I think having a child is something that requires special caution.
Some people are unable to give birth naturally, and it is the worst that they find out they are allergic to the anesthetic during the caesarean section.
Direct cesarean section, no anesthesia, making an incision on the abdomen and then tearing it apart, and taking the baby out, just imagine how cruel that is."
Hearing Wei Wei's words, everyone in the room was terrified, including Jiang Qi and Wei Wei herself.
They had heard of this example online. It was really tragic. This was really one of the sources of their fear of marriage and having children. This was a real horror story. They felt suffocated when they thought about it.
Xiao Xuemu's scalp tingled and his hands and feet turned cold when he heard this. "What kind of person is unable to have a natural birth?"
"If the woman is disabled, do you think she can give birth naturally? Definitely not.
Don't argue with me and ask why someone would have a baby if they can't walk properly. Just go to other places and you'll see how many women there are like this.
If the baby is too big to be delivered, can it be delivered naturally? If not, a cesarean section is the only option.
Also, people with high myopia cannot give birth naturally. It is better not to give birth naturally because it is very easy for the retina to rupture, which can lead to blindness, and this blindness cannot be cured.
For pregnant women with heart disease, it is best not to give birth naturally as it is dangerous.
It seems that there are many diseases that prevent childbirth. I can’t remember so many, I only know a little bit.
For older mothers, it is also best not to give birth naturally, as it can be very dangerous.
There are many other situations, and this is just a small part of them. I am not sure how many there are.”
After all, she didn't study this. She only remembered so much because she was free and learned a lot of random things on the Internet.