Chapter 534 Liu Family and Yu Family 5
Chapter 534 Liu Family and Yu Family 5
But Liu Jiaojiao didn't quite understand. Her mother was also a woman and had given birth to a child, so why couldn't she empathize with her fear?
There was no comfort, just a sentence: What woman doesn't have children? But does a woman have to have children?
Not only that, Liu Jiaojiao felt that her mother was somewhat avoiding the important issues.
She was clearly asking whether giving birth would be painful and what the disadvantages were, but her mother focused on the issue of whether she should give birth or not and ignored her question.
Now Liu Jiaojiao also laughed it off, pretending not to see her mother and avoiding the important matter. She wanted to get to the bottom of it, so she went over and asked coquettishly,
"Then mom, tell me if giving birth hurts~, and what are the disadvantages~"
Hu Yunxi didn't want to discuss this issue with her daughter. She was afraid that it would scare her daughter and make her really not want to have children in the future, so she rubbed her head.
“You’ll understand this when you give birth to a child. Although it will be painful, it’s bearable.
Once you give birth to your child, you will feel that all the pain is worth it."
Seeing that Hu Yunxi did not answer her question directly, Liu Jiaojiao continued to ask:
"What about the downsides? Are there any downsides to having a child? Especially downsides to your health."
Seeing Liu Jiaojiao's relentless look, Hu Yunxi was very confused. Where did this little girl hear these things?
"Nannan, tell your mother, did someone tell you something?"
Seeing that she didn't answer her question but questioned her mother instead, Liu Jiaojiao suddenly remembered what Wei Wei and the others had said before.
If their parents ask them this question in the future, don't tell them that they said it, for fear of being beaten.
At that time, she thought Wei Wei and Jiang Qi were making a fuss out of nothing, but now she suddenly seemed to understand a little.
"No, no one told me anything. I discovered it on my own."
After saying that, Liu Jiaojiao wanted to change the subject and continued to hug Hu Yunxi's arm and act coquettishly.
"Mom, just tell me."
"What disadvantages can there be? Look at every woman who hasn't given birth. Isn't my mother doing well now?"
"But I've heard that childbirth is extremely painful, like having your bones taken apart and reassembled.
There is also the possibility of tearing and leaking urine, your belly will get bigger, and you may get things like stretch marks on your belly.
It was a lucky thing that the baby was born. If it was unlucky, he might not even survive.”
Hu Yunxi lost her composure after hearing these words. Who on earth could say these things to a little girl? You know, these words would really scare people away from getting pregnant.
But after hearing what happened next, Hu Yunxi felt that it might not be someone who said it, but something that Liu Jiaojiao saw.
She also knew something about the conditions in the countryside. It was possible that Liu Jiaojiao was afraid because she saw someone die in childbirth, and she might even have been left with a psychological trauma.
The more Hu Yunxi thought about it, the more he felt that this was possible, so he comforted her:
"My dear, did you see something in the countryside?
Don't worry, that kind of situation will never happen to you again.
In the future, you will definitely give birth in a hospital. There will be doctors there, and even if there is a difficult delivery, there will still be a caesarean section, so there will be no danger to your life.
As for the other things you mentioned about having children, they are really not that exaggerated.
Those are all small possibilities. As long as the baby is not too old and the delivery is not difficult, the possibilities are very low.
So don't be scared by those rumors, okay?"
Hu Yunxi was also really worried, afraid that Liu Jiaojiao would see something she shouldn't see and then not be able to have children.
Women usually avoid unmarried girls when giving birth. If you see that situation and scare the girl, it would be a sin.
She had been paying attention to these things before, but she didn't expect that her daughter would see them when she went to the countryside, so Hu Yunxi was very worried.
After hearing this and seeing her mother's panicked look, Liu Jiaojiao knew everything.
What Wei Wei and Jiang Qi said must be true, and what they said is the closest to the truth.
What her mother said was just to comfort her, and they were all beautified words.
Now Liu Jiaojiao was really scared. Before, she had hoped there was a glimmer of possibility.
After all, Wei Wei and Jiang Qi are both young girls who have not yet married. They know these things from what others have said. It is possible that what they have inquired is not so comprehensive and may not be so accurate.
That's why she thought of asking her mother for confirmation. After all, her mother would not lie to her.
But the facts hit her hard. Looking at her mother's expression, she knew that she was lying to her.
Now Liu Jiaojiao has really given up the idea of having a child. Not to mention giving up the idea of having a child, she just doesn't want to have a child at the moment.
The main reason is that she hasn't gotten over it yet and she doesn't dare to give birth.
But seeing her mother like this, she couldn't refute it. It was enough for her to just know it in her heart, so she just nodded.
As for whether she listened to it or not, that was her own business.
Seeing that Liu Jiaojiao seemed to have listened and didn't ask any more questions, Hu Yunxi also breathed a sigh of relief.
I really don't know who the hell told these problems to the child, and told them in such detail that she didn't know how to cover it up.
If she knew about this, she would tear the mouth of any talkative woman who said these things in front of the little girl.
It's really not decent at all. How can an unmarried girl know these things?
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