Eating melons

Chapter 592 Unraveling

If she had thought of coming here, it would definitely be to pave the way for her brother, and she didn't care about her daughter's life or death.

Wei Wei could understand this, as the preference for boys over girls was so serious in later generations, let alone this era.

But she was not in a position to say these things. Although her relationship with Wu Mei was okay, it was a bit too much to say so.

Because even though Wu Mei always blames her parents, it is because she has been pushed too hard during this period. But even so, she still helps them when she should.

When she came back, she only had enough money for the bus fare and gave the rest to her parents. In Wu Mei's heart, her parents still mean a lot to her.

You can’t tell by looking at it alone, but the combined weight of her parents definitely exceeds her own.

So she couldn't explain some things too clearly, otherwise it would be easily regarded as sowing discord.

"Your parents' intentions are for your own good, because they don't know what your life is like in the countryside.

We are lucky to be in this brigade. Look at the life of the educated youth in other brigades.

Your parents know all this, so they want you to go back.

After all, they are so far away that no matter how capable your parents are, they can't do anything for you.

Not to mention that your parents have limited abilities, so they want to transfer you back and keep you by their side. No matter how bad it is, at least they can take care of you a little.

If you are alone in the countryside, if you are unlucky and meet the wrong person, even your bones will be gnawed away.

As for why they introduce you to such people, it is because your parents have limited abilities, and that may be the best method they can find and the best person they can find.

If your parents can find you someone of the same age, who has a job and can support a whole family, they won’t mind that you have a rural household registration.

That means your parents are capable enough to transfer you back to the city, so there is no need for them to choose that kind of person for you.

So your parents' starting point is still good, it's just that they didn't consider some things comprehensively.

You should also think from your parents' perspective. Your parents are not educated and may not have considered many things so comprehensively.

Also, you have to understand that no matter what you do, there are always gains and losses.

If you don't want to suffer in the countryside and borrow money from others, you will definitely suffer some losses in some aspects. It is impossible for everything to go as you wish."

This is something Wu Mei completely failed to notice. No matter what you do, you have to give up something in order to gain something. It is impossible to have it all. There is no such good thing in the world.

When Wu Mei heard this, her heart moved. To be honest, she really had not expected these aspects.

She only saw that the person her parents found had a problem with his character and was trying to push her into the fire pit, but she never thought about this matter from her parents' perspective.

Also, does she want to go back to the city? There is no need to think about this question. Which educated youth does not want to go back to the city and work hard in the countryside?

But she didn't want to pay that price; it was too high for her.

"Should I listen to my parents now? But I really don't want to listen to them.

I really don’t want to live like that, but if I don’t listen to them, there will be trouble in the future.”

And it is a disturbance in every sense of the word, it is annoying, and it will be like this no matter where you are.

Because if she didn't listen to them, it seemed like she really had no way to return to the city.

Although she would rather stay in the countryside than return to the city in that way.

But this was just a momentary thought. She had thought a lot during this period, especially when Liu Jiaojiao talked about having children just now, she remembered some things.

From a long-term perspective, she was not very willing to settle down in the countryside.

It would be fine if she was alone, but what if she got married in the future? What if she had children?

In the countryside, it would be fine if the child was a boy, but if it was a girl, Wu Mei really couldn't bear to think about it.

Even in a wealthy place like the Red Star Brigade, there are not many girls who can go to junior high school, and there are really only a handful who can go to high school.

But in the city, most girls will go to junior high school as long as they can get into junior high school.

Not to mention that she heard that several families in the neighboring brigade had drowned their baby girls in urine buckets.

Such things happened in the Red Star Brigade, but they were not so open and aboveboard.

Last year, she went to the mountains to pick up mountain products and came back when it was almost dark. On the way, she met an old lady. She was so old, but she came down from the mountain when it was almost dark, and she had nothing on her.

The next day, she heard that her newborn granddaughter had passed away. Wu Mei was not a fool, and she understood the twists and turns involved.