Eating melons

Chapter 593 Explosion

Just like Wei Wei and the others said, in the countryside, if the husband's family is extremely patriarchal, sometimes not having a daughter is really a kind act, and it is really too painful.

So in the long run, she still wants to go back to the city. She still doesn't want to stay in the countryside. She wants to go back to the city for the sake of her children.

Seeing that Wu Mei was reflecting on herself and not getting stuck in a dead end, Jiang Qi was afraid that she would really agree to the people her parents introduced her to, so she quickly reminded her:

“Although parents have good intentions, we must learn to look at things for ourselves.

You have to look at the problem based on your own abilities and circumstances, and you have to weigh which option is more beneficial to you."

Looking at the two current options, it's obviously more disadvantageous for her to marry that kind of person and return to the city.

It would be fine if Wu Mei could subdue the man, but if not, Wu Mei would be eaten until not even a bone was left.

But the reality is that Wu Mei can't suppress it, Wu Mei is still too soft-hearted.

Also, her family had no confidence and no support. If she returned to the city in this way, the consequences for those people's ex-wives would be the same as Wu Mei's.

Wu Mei didn't know that she would be taking the college entrance examination in two years. Jiang Qi was really afraid that Wu Mei would take that path in order to return to the city. Jiang Qi really felt that it was not worth it.

Wu Mei was really confused. The more she talked, the more she didn't know what to do. "Should I still listen to my parents?"

She listened to them and went back to get married, because that was her only way to return to the city.

Hearing this, Jiang Qi felt helpless. It seemed like all her words were in vain. She told her to weigh the pros and cons herself, but she was still asking for their opinions and asking them to make a decision. How could they dare to make a decision for her on such a matter?

If it were up to her, she would definitely stay in the countryside. After all, there would be plenty of opportunities to go back in the future.

But Wu Mei didn't know that she would have to take the college entrance examination in two years, so it was normal for her to worry.

But even though she knew that the college entrance examination would be held in two years, she could not guarantee that Wu Mei would pass.

If by then they all passed the exam and returned to the city, but Wu Mei didn't, because she said she wanted to stay in the countryside, and now she hasn't gone back, Wu Mei can't return to the city.

She didn't know whether Wu Mei would resent her for helping to make this decision.

As for asking her to go back, the kind of person her mother introduced to her sounded like a big pit. As long as Wu Mei went back, she would be stuck in a quagmire from which she could not get out.

Therefore, if they were asked to choose in this matter, no matter what they chose, it would be wrong.

How could she dare to help others make decisions on such an important matter of life? How could she possibly help others make decisions?

If it were Wei Wei, she might help make the decision, because no matter what, Wei Wei has the capital and courage to fail and start over, but Wu Mei can't do that, so Jiang Qi really didn't dare to say anything.

Liu Jiaojiao didn't think too much about it, but she was also helpless. As an outsider, it was really hard for them to say anything about this matter. She just said:

"That depends on what you think. Since we are in different situations, our ideas won't have much effect on you. It all depends on what you think in your heart."

Looking at Wu Mei's confused look, and then at Jiang Qi and Liu Jiaojiao scratching their heads, Wei Wei didn't know what to say.

Wu Mei was the same. She didn't dare to make a decision. After all, there were too many uncontrollable factors. She could only bite the bullet and say:

"As for your parents' advice, look at it this way: see how your parents do in giving you advice.

Or how are your family members doing? Are they successful in this area?

If your family members are doing well in the area of ​​the advice given to you, then you should listen to it. If not, then you should not listen to it.

It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t listen, but you should listen to your own choices and listen to your own heart.

If there are no successful examples at home, it means that they don’t understand and are just crossing the river by feeling the stones.

Listen to yourself. At least you have read books, so you may have more knowledge in certain areas and a greater chance of success. "

Wei Wei really didn't know how to explain this in more detail. She couldn't just say, since your mother chose the man for you, then you should just see what your father, who your mother chose, is like.

Look at how all the men in your family treat their wives, and see how well the women in your family are doing. She can't say that.

In fact, what she said is not only true in this matter, but also in other aspects. It depends on whether Wu Mei can understand it.

Speaking of this, Wu Mei remembered something else. Wei Wei said that her parents were so anxious to let her go back because they didn't know her situation here.

If she told her parents the truth about her situation here, would they not be so worried? Thinking of this, Wu Mei asked again.

After hearing this, the three people present didn't know what to say, especially Wei Wei and Jiang Qi.

Did Wu Mei get PUAed by her family during her trip back home? Or is there some aftereffect?

Wasn't he quite smart before? He hid his situation well and even gave the money to Wei Wei before going back. Why did he have to pay for his family's expenses after going back?

Wei Wei looked at Wu Mei curiously, "If that's the case, then why did you save the money for me before? Why didn't you take it back?

When you went back this time, you felt and understood the situation at home.

If your parents knew you had so much money and so many things, do you know what would happen to you?"

It goes without saying that her parents will drain all her money.

"But if I don't tell them this, they won't know what my life is like here, and they'll still worry about me and want to take me back, and then they'll keep introducing me to unreliable people."

When Wei Wei heard about this unreliable person, she knew that fortunately, she had not lost all her brains.

"Think carefully, how does your life compare to your life at home?

If you could return to the city, what do you think would be better, your life after returning to the city or your current life, given your abilities?

With Wu Mei's ability, if her parents knew that she could make so much money and so many things in the countryside in a year, Wei Wei would be really worried that her parents would really abandon her in the countryside.

If her parents really had some bad intentions, or wanted to support her brother, Wu Mei would be a huge blood bag, the kind that could continuously supply blood.

Hearing that this was not allowed and that was not allowed, Wu Mei was about to collapse.

She was not such a person originally, but she had been oppressed at home for several months, and her emotions had been suppressed and not vented. These things weighed on her nerves all day long, and she could hardly bear it, and now she couldn't help it in front of her friends.

"Neither this nor that is allowed, so what should I do?"

"The right amount."

"The right amount?"

Wei Wei nodded, "Yes, the right amount of expression, the right amount of ability, the right amount of money, understand?

Talk to your parents about your situation based on your family's conditions.

How capable do you think you need to be for your parents to feel at ease? Of course, you must speak to the lowest standard and don't reveal everything about yourself.

Also, you should support your parents in moderation and not shoulder so much responsibility alone."

Wei Wei didn't say anything else, leaving it to Wu Mei to figure it out on her own.

After all, if she continued to say some of these things, she would be suspected of sowing discord.

Because the truth is often unpleasant to hear. If Wu Mei emptied out her family's savings and took everything back, her parents would most likely think that since she could take it out, she must have done it easily and must have more in her hands.

They don't even consider how their daughter saved money to bring it back.

In Wei Wei's opinion, Wu Mei's sending a ginseng back in the first year was completely stupid, really stupid.

“What if I don’t want to listen to my parents and they keep pushing me and interfering?

And what if my parents find out that I’m doing okay and want my money? "

After hearing these words, she finally understood that she definitely could not marry those people.

But her parents will definitely not give up. Even if she is living well here, her parents will want her to go back to the city.

As for what would happen next, she was a little worried. Before she came back, she gave all the money she had on her to her mother, and her mother kept it all.

They said they were saving it for her, but she spent money lavishly and couldn't keep it stable.

At that time, she thought that there was not much money and it was also for her parents, so she did not think much about it. Anyway, she had already given it to them and they could use it however they wanted.

But if she tells her parents about her situation now and gives them some financial support, she is afraid that they will often ask her for money.

Hearing this, Jiang Qi really couldn't help but said, "You are so far away from your parents, how can they interfere?

If you want them to intervene, let them do so. If you don’t want them to intervene, don’t let them do so. You are so far away from them, isn’t the initiative entirely in your hands?

If you don't want to, they can't force you! Can they come here and tie you back?

Even if you come here to kidnap someone, it's useless. Without a letter of introduction from the captain, you can't even leave the city, so what is there to be afraid of?"

Jiang Qi was about to explode when she heard these words. She didn't understand. What was there to be afraid of? The sky was high and the earth was far away. Was she still afraid that they would come and kidnap people?